A Scorpio man and Sagittarius woman are a difficult zodiac combination. Signs that are next to each other in the zodiac often have trouble relating to each other. There are a few exceptions to this rule, but this pairing is not one of them.
In the case of a Scorpio man and a Sagittarius woman, these signs are working at cross purposes. This is particularly true with respect to relationships. A Scorpio man is seeking a deep connection with someone, and a Sagittarius woman is seeking freedom.
As in most cases with adjacent signs, the differences between Scorpio and Sagittarius are so stark that they generally will not get together at all. That means that if they do get together, they will have already overcome the biggest hurdle to their relationship.
To maintain the relationship, they will need to find a way to be close enough to satisfy the Scorpio man while allowing enough space for the Sagittarius woman to roam. Yet, with creativity and a strong enough desire to be together, these signs can create a happy and healthy relationship.
Important traits of a Scorpio man in relation to a Sagittarius woman
A Scorpio man is passionate and intense. Anything that he does, he does fully and completely. When he studies or investigates something, he wants to get to the heart of the matter.
For him, the keyword is depth. Shallow communication and shallow relationships leave him unsatisfied. Sometimes his desire for depth leads him into dark places, and there is often a mysterious quality to a Scorpio man.
On the other hand, many Scorpio men are good and honorable people. A Scorpio man is also quite courageous.
Scorpio is rarely satisfied with casual relationships. A Scorpio man is capable of them, but they are not very interesting to him. He prefers more lasting bonds, and when he settles on a partner, he usually stays with her for life.
He also prefers honest communication. A Scorpio man can spot a lie a mile away. He does have a tendency to become extremely jealous, and this is one of his worst qualities.
Important traits of a Sagittarius woman in relation to a Scorpio man
While the keyword for Scorpio is depth, the keyword for Sagittarius is breadth. A Sagittarius woman desires freedom above everything else. She loves to travel, and it is hard for her to stay in one place for any length of time. A Sagittarius woman has a cheerful disposition, and it is hard not to smile in her presence.
A Sagittarius woman often has many friends, but in most cases, these friendships are quite casual. Because she moves around so much, it is hard for her to develop deep relationships. Indeed, she is quite shy of commitment, not wanting her freedom to be restricted in any way.
A Sagittarius woman is honest to a fault. She says what is on her mind without thinking about whether she will offend someone. Yet, people rarely get angry with her because of her sunny demeanor. The positive side to this is that one can generally take a Sagittarius woman at face value. She rarely, if ever, has any hidden agendas.
Scorpio man, Sagittarius woman: Dating and early stages of the relationship
In most cases, a relationship between a Scorpio man and a Sagittarius woman will never get off of the ground. The differences between these two signs will be obvious from the beginning.
A Sagittarius woman is upfront about who she is and what she wants. Likewise, even though a Scorpio man has his secrets and holds his cards close to the vest, he can be surprisingly direct and forthcoming about what he is looking for. This is especially true with respect to relationships.
Even though this is a difficult pairing, mismatched signs get together all of the time. It is possible that a Scorpio man and Sagittarius woman will find each other attractive enough to want to date. Generally, this will be a fling, but it could turn into something more serious.
Scorpio man, Sagittarius woman: Sexual compatibility
It will be hard for a Scorpio man and Sagittarius woman to satisfy each other in the bedroom. He is a passionate lover, but he is a bit too intense for a Sagittarius woman.
She is playful and adventurous when it comes to sex, but she is generally not interested in the deep emotional bonds that he craves.
On the other hand, neither of them will hesitate to share their feelings or their wants and needs. This will give them the ability to talk and negotiate which will allow them to reach a compromise that they both can live with.
Scorpio man, Sagittarius woman: Marriage and family life
Very few Scorpio man, Sagittarius woman couples will marry. Even if the relationship begins and survives long enough for them to consider marriage, a Sagittarius woman is reluctant to marry in the best of circumstances.
If they do have a long-term relationship, it will tend to be an on and off situation in which they get together when she is in town. It could also turn into a “friends with benefits” arrangement. If they do marry, however, their marriage has a good chance of surviving.
The biggest challenge will be finding a way for him to get enough intimacy while at the same time allowing her enough freedom. She will need to stay at home much more than she is comfortable with.
Likewise, he will need to curb his natural tendency to become possessive and jealous. It will help if he has a job that requires him to travel. This will go a long way towards satisfying her wanderlust.
A Scorpio man and Sagittarius woman may decide not to have children. He is often deeply involved in his work. She will be reluctant to give up her independence. If they do have children, they will have very different parenting styles.
While this could get confusing for the children, it could also provide balance. She will be fun for the children to be with, and he will provide structure and discipline.
Scorpio man, Sagittarius woman: Working together
When a Scorpio man works, he has a goal in mind, and he will do whatever it takes to achieve his goal. He is steadfast and often rather stubborn.
A Sagittarius woman, on the other hand, gets bored easily and cannot abide by tedious tasks. They will have a hard time respecting each other, at least at first. He is prone to seeing her as flighty and perhaps even irresponsible, and she may think that he is obsessed.
Yet, if they can get past their tendency to be judgmental of each other, they can balance each other well. He can get overly involved in the task at hand, and he can use someone who will help him to let things go at times. Likewise, she can be unfocused and even a little careless, and she could use someone who can help her stay on task.
Typical fights between a Scorpio man and a Sagittarius woman and how to resolve them
A Scorpio man and a Sagittarius woman will not fight much, per se. Most of the difficulties between these signs will be obvious from the very beginning. If they decide to enter into a relationship, they will both know exactly what they are getting into. Even so, there is one topic that could be an ongoing issue throughout their relationship.
Even if a Sagittarius woman is deeply in love, sooner or later, she will get restless and want to go somewhere.
There is not much danger of her actually cheating, but he will still have to battle with his jealousy in order to accept her need to wander. They may be able to travel together. Even if they do, she will need time to do things by herself, and it will be hard for him to allow her that time.
Some signs like when their partners get a little jealous because it can show genuine love and affection. Unfortunately, a Sagittarius woman will not. She will see displays of jealous as attempts to restrict and control her. This could cause her to cool off towards him, and it can even pose a danger to their relationship.
There is no easy way through this difficulty because it goes to the very nature of each of these signs. They do have a saving grace, however, and that is their capacity for open and honest communication. This will help them discuss the problem, and perhaps come to a solution that they both can live with.
A Scorpio man and a Sagittarius woman are an unlikely couple, but unlikely couples get together all of the time.
If they are to enter into a relationship, they will have to find ways to meet each of their vastly different needs. In particular, they will need to find a way to give him the closeness he desires without restricting her freedom.
On the other hand, both of these signs tend to be honest and direct. This will give them the ability to compromise and negotiate ways for them both to be happy together.