It’s hard to see how these two signs could possible work as a couple. Air sign Gemini buzzes around the universe, comfortably inhabiting and causing chaos whilst Earth sign Virgo likes to remain firmly planted on Terra firma and craves order and predictability.
Gemini and Virgo are also fairly willful, independent individuals who don’t appreciate being told how to do something – a trait which is actually capable of bonding them – by supporting each others need for independence and control these signs form an alliance against everyone else and create a relationship based on the belief that they are right and everyone else is wrong.
Decoding Gemini and Virgo friendships
Gemini and Virgo friendships often form out of mutual needs. Virgo is the kind of friend who does your taxes for free once a year and Gemini can knock off a pretty moving awards speech. They may not see each other often but there is mutual respect for each others talents.
If truly comfortable – there will be lots of like hearted ribbing – Gemini teases Virgo about their numerous neurosis and Virgo eye rolls at Geminis flakiness. It makes for a nice even tempered friendship if they are able to laugh at themselves.
First signs of attraction & compatibility
These two are often attracted to each other physically – they tend to be lithe and move through space elegantly – many Geminis are dancers and every third Virgo is a Yoga instructor. To outsiders it looks like they are having a good old fashioned perv but its more that they find great beauty in the human body – to Virgo/Gemini a fantastic body is a masterpiece.
Dancing is on the cards – musical Gemini love to shake their booty and Virgo might be self conscious about a lot of things but tripping the light fantastic aint one of them. Expect the dancing to get more and more intimate and touchy feely as the night goes on. These two have a way of making love without even taking their clothes off.
The Gemini and Virgo in relationships
You know that friend who’s with someone totally unsuitable and you just cant work out what they get from the relationship – that’s the collective opinion of Virgos friends when they are in a relationship with Gemini. There’ll be lots of times when Gemini/Virgo just seem hell bent on making each other miserable – and as they are both prone to anxiety – trust is hard to achieve.
Both are mutable signs so they do like variety and spontaneity and perhaps this is the glue that keeps them together. they are always planning the next holiday, signing up for tennis lessons or learning how to Ski. They end up having such full calendars together that there’s simply no time to break up – besides we kind of reckon they enjoy all the relationship drama.
Where they may encounter turbulence
Getting out of bed, doing the dishes, watching TV – no activity is too mundane to eliminate turbulence. Virgo is highly critical and Gemini completely tactless – both want to do things their way or not at all.
The twins inability to complete or stay on task frustrates single minded Virgo and sometimes they’ll feel like they’re raising a child. Gemini, on the other hand will resent t being treated like a child and act accordingly. A bit of maturing up – and down wouldn’t go astray with these two.
When Gemini and Virgo fall in love
Its likely to be purely physical for quite a while – Gemini wont even think to ask Virgos last name. They’ll just quietly slip away at functions to adore each others bodies sans clothes. The day the twins do ask for a last name is when you know love is in the air and things are more than skin deep. Virgo gets grumpy as they fall for Gemini – sensible but highly anxious red flags shoot up all over the place warning them of Geminis unsuitability.
Either sign is likely to break it off when they admit to having feelings. Virgo knows Gemini is chaotic and untrainable and Gemini fears being tied to a white picket fence. If its true love Virgos’ body responds to separation by getting sick and the twins launch into activity overload in an attempt to forget. Its probably better that they stop being silly and try giving the relationship a good crack.
Gemini and Virgo sexual compatibility
It’s good – no its fantastic! Virgo may look like butter wouldn’t melt in their mouth but between the sheet they are explosive. Combine this with Gemini’s flexibility and never ending energy levels and you’ve got an itch that just keeps needing a good scratch.
Both signs are governed by fleet footed Mercury meaning they are nimble and athletic in the bedroom and agile enough to try a variety of unusual positions. Its a good thing they have a robust love life as with all those arguments there’s bound to be lots of makeup sex as well.
Gemini and Virgo marriage compatibility…
If it happens it will be caused by a Virgo ultimatum which usually isn’t a god start to marriage – but in this case it might actually work. Gemini can reach the stage where they realise poor Virgo has sacrificed friends, careers and opportunities just to follow the twins wild schemes and flights of fantasy – they acknowledge its Virgos time to shine – to create a home, put down roots and even have children.
And speaking of children these guys are good at parenting albeit with very different roles. Gemini will smother them with love and silliness and Virgo provides security and safety. A word of warning though – Gemini/Virgos combined anxiety level might create a couple of helicopter parents instead of allowing children to build resilience.