A Cancer man and Capricorn woman come from opposite signs. The aspect of opposition can be a tense and difficult one, but when determining whether two people are compatible by zodiac sign, opposite signs are the natural partners for each other.
In actuality, some opposite pairs get along better than others. In the case of a Cancer man and Capricorn woman, they can do very well together. On the other hand, they will have a lot of trouble if they try to make their relationship conform to traditional gender roles. Cancer is the sign most closely associated with the home, and Capricorn is the sign that is closely associated with career concerns. For this reason, they will do far better if he manages the household and she works outside the home.
Important traits of a Cancer man in relation to a Capricorn woman
A Cancer man is devoted to his family above any other concern. He is usually very good at domestic skills such as cooking, cleaning, and caring for children. Of all signs, he is the one that is most suited to being “Mr. Mom.” Cancer is a natural nurturer, and for him to do be at his best, he absolutely needs someone to care for. If he does not have someone to care for, his worst traits can come to the forefront, such as neediness, clinginess, self-indulgence, and self-pity.
It is very common for a Cancer man to be very close to his parents, particularly his mother. She tends to be quite involved in his life well into adulthood. This could cause difficulties when he gets into a relationship, particularly if his mother is the type to interfere or to criticize his partner.
A Cancer man needs a woman who is steady and stable. Although he does well when he is caring for others, he does not always think to pay attention to his own needs or consider practical concerns. He does best when he has a partner who can balance these tendencies.
Important traits of a Capricorn woman in relation to a Cancer man
A Capricorn woman is extremely practical and sensible. She knows how to navigate the physical world and even how to conquer it. In earlier times, a Capricorn woman was usually the force behind the success of her husband, but in modern times, she is much more free to climb the corporate ladder for herself. She is a natural businesswoman, and she is very devoted to her career.
A Capricorn woman will almost never marry only for love, and her head always rules her heart. Despite this, she can be a devoted wife and mother, and she will take her relationship very seriously. She will be more concerned about the financial and material stability of her family than she will about their emotional needs. This can sometimes make her seem cold and uncaring, but this is far from the case. Her concern over practicalities is how she shows her love for those that she cares about.
Cancer man, Capricorn woman: Dating and early stages of the relationship
A Cancer man and Capricorn woman will be instantly drawn to each other. This is common for signs that are opposite each other. Opposites really do attract. It might be hard for them to interact with each other at first, though. A Cancer man tends to be rather shy in public, as does a Capricorn woman. She is almost always extremely busy, so she may not have time to socialize much.
If they get over the initial hurdle and do meet, they will soon realize that they fit each other perfectly. They are both rather quiet and somewhat conservative. He will be steadied by her sensible earthiness, and she will be warmed by his tenderness.
While this will be enough for him, it may not be enough for her. She will consider the practical implications of a relationship with him. Unless a Cancer man works in a helping profession, he will not seem to have much in the way of ambition. This will make the Capricorn woman concerned about his prospects.
If she is wise, she will see that despite appearances, this would be a practical pairing for her. He will be willing and able to provide her with the support that she needs so that she can devote herself to her work.
Cancer man, Capricorn woman: Sexual compatibility
There is a great deal of chemistry between these signs. A Cancer man is passionate and tender, and in spite of her cold and businesslike exterior, a Capricorn woman is very sensual. They will complement each other well in the bedroom, and sex will bond them closer together. They will both be able to satisfy each other’s needs and will have an excellent sex life together.
Cancer man, Capricorn woman: Marriage and family life
In the progress bar for this section, the marriage compatibility for this pair is listed as 75/100. This is a little misleading, though. There are actually two possibilities. They could try to have a traditional marriage, with her trying to manage the household and to be the primary caretaker for the children, or they could accept a role reversal and have him manage the household and be the primary caretaker for the children. In the first scenario, their marriage compatibility drops to 50/100. In the second scenario, it rises to 100/100. 75/100 is the average of the two possibilities.
The reason that they may attempt a more traditional arrangement is that they will both tend to be rather conservative. They also may be influenced by others, particularly his mother, to stick to a more conventional arrangement. If they do go down that road, however, they will both be extremely unhappy.
It is not just that he has talents better suited to the home and she has talents better suited to the office, this is what they each have a strong desire to do. In a conventional arrangement, they will both start to resent each other. She will resent him for his advancement in his career, and he will resent her, especially if she is able to be home with the children more than he is.
As parents, regardless of how they arrange the division of labor in their household, the children will experience him as the primary nurturer and her as the disciplinarian. They will both be devoted parents, but they may have some trouble when the children are teenagers, especially if they get into mischief or start to rebel. Neither the Cancer man nor Capricorn woman was prone to mischief or rebellion when they were young, so they will have a hard time understanding these things in their children.
Cancer man, Capricorn woman: Working together
For the most part, a Cancer man and Capricorn woman will work very well together. They naturally complement each other as to their abilities and temperaments. She is best at practical matters, and he has a personal touch.
They may have some difficulty, though, in that both of them like to be in control. She will control directly, but a Cancer man will not easily back down or follow instructions. He sometimes resorts to manipulation or passive-aggressiveness to get what he wants. The best approach would be for them both to take charge of specific areas or projects.
Typical fights between a Cancer man and a Capricorn woman and how to resolve them
If a Cancer man and Capricorn woman allow themselves to do things in the way that is most comfortable for them, they will have very little, if any, conflict. They will both naturally fall into the roles that suit them best and live harmoniously together. Like all couples, they may have a few arguments from time to time, but these arguments will not be serious.
The trouble may come, though, if they listen to other people who think that they know better. The most likely person who will cause problems for them would be his mother.
As stated before, the best arrangement for a Cancer man and Capricorn woman is for him to be in charge of the home and her to be the main breadwinner. Yet, the Capricorn woman, in particular, will be concerned about what people think of them. He may also feel inadequate or unmasculine due to social pressure. If this happens, they may take things out on each other, causing tension and conflict.
This is a similar issue as would be faced by a Cancer man and Scorpio woman.
This will be a bigger problem when this couple is younger. As they mature, they will tend to become less worried about what other people think of them.
As opposite signs, a Cancer man and Capricorn woman are natural partners for each other. They provide balance for each other and each is strong where the other is weak. The best arrangement for them would be a role reversal in which he took on a more domestic role. If they both can be comfortable with such an arrangement, they will be a harmonious couple that can stand the test of time.